I think I have a problem…

One day, about 4 years ago now, I was browsing the free section of craigslist.org and spotted a post about a cat. In the title, they threatened to drop this tiny wee kitten off at the pound if no one came to claim this animal with the crazy personality. He turned out to be an amazing fit for our family. He survived the love of two toddlers with much patience and stoicism. We were sad to lose him earlier this year.

When we bought a house, we knew we wanted to get a dog. It had always been part of the plan. So one day, over three years ago, we stopped by the local shelter. “Just to look,” we said. After all, we weren’t closing on the house for another two weeks. So this was just a window shopping expedition.

There was this dog there, this larger-than-I-wanted dog, who greeted us with this happy tail wagging dance, tongue lolling out of her mouth, desperate to deposit kisses if it weren’t for that kennel door in her way. When we turned to go, this anxious-to-love animal let out this half-moan, half-heartbroken-howl sound. Apparently, Sadie fell in love even faster than we did.

We signed the paperwork that afternoon, and the shelter promised to hold our dog until we closed. The day we closed on the house, we picked up our dog. (We had a rough start for awhile there, but in the end I think she was/is the best dog for us.)

Then when our cat passed away at the end of this summer, after a few months, we decided to get the kids another cat. So we started looking around, and wound up back at the shelter where we had gotten our dog. We met these kittens, Boris and Spud, who had been abandoned twice over. Once to the shelter, with their brothers, (their own brothers, Boris and Spud are from different litters) and then again when their brothers were picked and they were each left behind. Sad, sad, sad. Their story was full of sad. So naturally, we HAD to bring them both home…WE HAD TO.

Today, while scouring the town fruitlessly for an advent calendar, I noticed a flier. There were these people who, due to financial troubles, are looking to sell their horses. Except for one, which they’d like to give free to a good home. Because she’s old. But she’s sweet and gentle and perfect for new  or young riders (most likely because she’s old and slow and just doesn’t care anymore). And I found myself going, “Awww, that poor horse…”

Y’all….I live in town. I have about an acre of land. I mean, it’s a big yard, but it’s not stable-a-horse-big. And I really don’t need YET ANOTHER mouth to feed, or furry animal to care for. Plus there’s that whole new baby thing coming up in a few months.

And yet I STILL found myself tempted to take the number of these people with the poor horse who needed a home.

I think I have a problem.

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  • Cynthiawalkerwhite

    Honey, there has to be a support group for this. Love you!

    • http://thepsychobabble.net thepsychobabble

      lol, I think I need to start one up:p

  • Erin Straka

    Umm, yeah…I’m the same way.  Hubby never had pets but I grew up with cats and a dog.  When we moved in together, we got 2 cats the NEXT DAY (Hubby’s idea).  They were a brother and sister and they were the BEST CATS.  The following year, he wanted ANOTHER one but I wanted 2 in case the other 2 didn’t take to them.  So, yup…we ended up with 4 cats.  THEN when I was pregnant with my oldest, we met Hubby’s cousin’s shih tzu at Thanksgiving.  THE NEXT DAY we went to a breeder and got one.  She is the best dog…mellow and VERY tolerant of the kids.

    Unfortunatey, we lost our older 2 cats within a year of each other and the younger 2 are WAY antisocial.  They were born feral and never took to the dog so they seem to have reverted.  They hide ALL DAY and I miss having affectionate cats.  SO, we may be heading to the shelter soon to pick out a kitty.  BUt I’m seriously afraid of wanting to bring home EVERYTHING.

    • http://thepsychobabble.net thepsychobabble

      When we went to look at cats this time, we narrowed it down via their website first. Clearly, it didn’t solve our problem entirely, but at least I only brought home two and not six, ya know?

  • http://www.fromtracie.com From Tracie

    I have to stay away from all free, soon-to-be-homeless pets for just this reason. well, that and the sneezing – cats make me sneeze (but they sure sure are cute!)

    • http://thepsychobabble.net thepsychobabble

      I know. This is why I have to donate goods or cash to the shelters instead of time. I’d be all, “Rescue ALL the pets!”

  • http://lucidlotuslife.com joules

    But…that poor horse.  And think of all the fun the kids would have riding it.  Wait, I think I have a problem too.  Sign me up for that support group.
    PS, advent calendars at Trader Joe’s for a dolla.  With chocolate.  Do they have Trader Joe’s in the midwest?

    • http://thepsychobabble.net thepsychobabble

      We can carpool. :)

      I don’t think we have trader joe’s, but my mom was headed to “The Big City” tonight, so maybe grandma will come to the rescue?

  • LV

    You’re not alone…

    I thought I was doing enough by volunteering the shelter and ended up with large dog #2.  I vowed never again.  I’ll send money instead.  But, the SPCA are tricky fellas.  They called and said, pretty please!  I caved, but this time it was husband that got suckered.  Enter dog #3!  Yeah, I’m that chick.  Three dog lady.  And, they have their own couch in the living room with a nice view under the window.  From what I can tell, it has a nice evening sun.

    Let me know when the support group is.

    • http://thepsychobabble.net thepsychobabble

      Our dog has her own recliner. Occasionally she will share with the children.

  • Jennifer Tooker

    When my daughter turned 3, my mom and I decided she needed a cat. So we went to the shelter and picked one out. Then the volunteer came in and said “oh, it’s buy one get one!” So, yeah, we ended up with two. I’ve told my husband, if it wasn’t for the whole “we can’t afford it” thing, we’d totally have more animals. Right now, we’re up to two dogs and a cat. But i want MOAR!!! MOAR!!!!!
    I frequently look at petfinder.com and pretend they are all mine. Maybe we should start a support group.

    • http://thepsychobabble.net thepsychobabble

      lol, I’m starting to think so! Clearly, we are not alone:)

  • Anonymous

    The best thing I can say is to find out if there is a way you can help with transports from shelters to rescues… then you CANNOT adopt them on the spot, but you can love on them for an hour or so.

    • http://thepsychobabble.net thepsychobabble

      Hmm…I hadn’t thought of that! I’ll have to look into it:)

  • http://karenismuttering.blogspot.com/ karen

    Hey!!!  I just stumbled upon you.  How cool is that?!!!?

    I just need a back fence, and then we will get ourselves the dog I’ve been promising us.  Of course it will be a rescue dog, but I’ll have to wait for the right one *unless one fixes me with the pick me stare*!

    I really miss having a cat, but I have this friend who is so horrifyingly allergic I would have to not hang out with him.  And I’ve had that friend for a long time, so he wins.

    I decided that the dog I get will be mine (and also my choice) so that I won’t resent anyone when I’m scoopin’, washin’, feedin’ … though I will make it the kids’ responsibility and see where that goes.

    Gotta fly.  Should really go to bed.  Might be 1 am soon.  But I just did my one stumble and here I am.  Happy to be at your place.

    xox

    karen

    • http://thepsychobabble.net thepsychobabble

      That is awesome! SU is WORKING, yay! :p
      And yes, that is definitely the way to go about it. Just assume that the work will fall to you, and get the dog you want to begin with.Although, I will say that the kids are doing an amazing job of keeping up with the kitty chores.