For this I am grateful, for this I am grateful, for THIS I am grateful….

I find myself thinking this to myself a lot lately. I couldn’t really tell you why. It wasn’t a conscious decision to be more thankful for the small things in life. I find it just…happening.

Truck sits quietly snuggled up to his father, as his nebulizer pumps the medicine into his lungs, helping him to breathe. And for the quiet cooperation of the child who is anything but quiet, still or cooperative most days, for this I am thankful.

I share my discouragement with our situation. I whine about how sometimes it’s hard to see how we’ll get through this, and friends and family rush to support us. Some with offers of help, and some with gentle reminders that we have a certainty that this will pass, and we’ll be okay. And that is more than some have. For the out pouring of love and encouragement when I most needed it, for this, I am grateful.

It’s November, in Wisconsin, and it’s a balmy 65 degrees Fahrenheit outside. We horse around outside for hours, without the usual mind-numbing cold of November. I can enjoy the season without 5 layers of clothing. For this, I am grateful.

The money that some scheming loser stole from our bank account is returned, just in time to cover two small, but important, bills that needed to be paid. For the timing, for the amount that is within a few dollars of what was needed, I am grateful.

Miss Question bounces up and down excitedly, and asks, “Momma, can we make THAT?” as she watches her nightly cooking show. For her passion, her love of cooking and creating, however odd it may be at the tender age of four…for that I am grateful.

I curl up on the couch at the end of the day, next to TheMan. I think of how much has happened in the last 6 months. I think of how I wouldn’t have been able to write that first sentence most nights, less than a year ago. I think of how much has changed, and for this I am grateful.

Sometimes (okay, a lot of times) it is hard for me to see the good things in my life. So I welcome this change. I’m determined to enjoy my new perspective.
I’d love hear what you are grateful for in your life, however small it may seem.

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1   Stealth_myahem    http://stealthmayhem.blogspot.com
November 9th, 2009 at 11:39 AM

Everyone always seems to be in a bad mood lately. If they focused on what was good in their lives instead of the bad things, they would truly see how lucky they are. The way I figure it is if you wake up in the morning, it is a good day, no matter what else happens. There is always someone worse off than you.

2   Lindsey    http://lillybug.org
November 10th, 2009 at 4:08 AM

Hey, thanks for the comment. Love your site. It made me laugh a little.

3   ThePsychobabble    
November 10th, 2009 at 2:29 PM

@stealth I think it can be hard…no, scratch that…I KNOW it can be hard to be grateful in the face of hard times.

@lindsey glad you enjoyed it! :)

4   kat    http://motherfonker.blogspot.com
November 10th, 2009 at 5:45 PM

aww… great post. i will copy and have a grateful post too. :-) i am grateful for your grateful post.

5   toywithme    http://toywithme.com
November 10th, 2009 at 6:31 PM

What a very touching and thought provoking post. Having someone remind me what is truly important in life … for this I am grateful. Thank you.

6   ThePsychobabble    
November 10th, 2009 at 9:13 PM

@toywithme and @kat you're making me blush!

7   toywithme    http://toywithme.com
November 11th, 2009 at 9:22 AM

No need to blush girl, it was a very touching post.
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8   magda    http://ijonc.blogspot.com
December 3rd, 2009 at 3:28 AM

i can see why this is one of your favorite posts. found it on Spawnocalypse. i think this is a tough time for so many right now, especially mommies of the little ones. just this past saturday, i posted my pledge to stare into the face of the good. it is so easy to rubberneck for roadkill and breeze right by your favorite tree or house.
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9   upsetryders    http://benjaminsblog.anthonyjansen.com/
January 2nd, 2010 at 4:50 AM

Wow loved reading this blogpost. I submitted your rss to my blogreader!!

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